H.O.N.E.Y

@Kali It's like the whole #AllLivesMatter argument which also doesn't make sense. 

Sis I read your other blog the other day and just reading it made me nervous bc that guy sounded overly aggressive/potentially violent. As a man, what are your precautions for meet ups and first dates? I wonder if it's similar to what us females do? Glad you're alright, shit is scary.

@Kali Lol I find it interesting how u linked my situation with the video.  

Well let's just say that in my area, the younger they are... the more likely of them being violent/troublemakers/on drugs and that's why I tend to go for older folks that are over that messy period in their life. And looking back, I've had so many horrible experiences in the past 6 years which included assaults, physical altercations, and stuff I wont divulge into right now.. all of that stuff happened with guys that are below 25. The guy that was stalking me after I rejected him was in that age range. I should really stay away from those hot young troublemakers. 

In terms of precautions, well idk if you'd consider them precautions but I ask for their pics and speak to them on phone. I know that meeting them on a mutual ground in public would limit problems, but it's just not my style. Yes I know by not doing that I'm welcoming potential freaks into my room, but idk. I guess it has to do with the fact that the issues I've had from guests in my apartment are so small IN COMPARISON with the many threats/altercations I've had both in public and in other people's homes tbh. I surely have horror stories for days and might share some in future diary entries if they're relevant. 

My life's just a mess.