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Friends that aren't really well....your friends


Harley_Queen

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i dated my ex for almost a year. He thought everything was fine. Until to the point i broke up with him. Of course he yelled at me and broke out crying. And even begged me to give him a kiss. I refused and so i moved on. Appearently he didn't. During those horrible abused and suffering six months that he put me through, I couldn't think of a way to make him stop. So i offered my friendship to him. I did that only because so he can leave me alone. Unfortunately for me he didn't he still went on and on about how i would never find a guy like him (which is the whole point of the break up is to not find anyone like him ever) and how he is a tech and how much of a good husband he will be and all that bs. But honestly i never had feelings for him. I only dated him because i had pity for him not because i liked him. This whole battle between me and him went on for at least 7 months. And it still going on now. I have a boyfriend who makes me happy and then as usual whenever my crazy ex hears about me dating someone (which i don't know how he knew but somehow someone told him) he gets angry and tries to steal me away from my date. And usually i reject him...alot! and when he gets rejected he usually goes to his little idiotic dick friends and tells them oh "My ex had sex and now she's pregnant" or something like that..all i do is tell him thats very immature for a guy to talk bad about a girl. It takes a real man to take a hike and accept that the girl is happy with someone else. After a bunch of yelling and insulting here and there i decided to go for a solution. I told him "you say we're meant to be but really we aren't even dating first of all and second of all i already love somebody else. This is just life's way of saying that we are not meant to be.We've tried to date and we failed and tried being friends but you wouldnt accept it because all u want to do is date me so i guess this means in order to stop fighting its best if we stop communicating" he didnt respond after that. But when he does i hope is something positive and that he understands....Well that's my story..i tried many times to be nice but it just never works..so some people weren't meant to be friends after all. Thanks guys for reading and more blogs will be coming your way with some of my other interesting stories that i have in stock but haven't told yet. 

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13 hours ago, ajp said:

Why don't you send him exactly what you just wrote above?

copy. paste. send.

he gets mad whenever i tell him how i felt..and plus everytime i do..he just never listens he only about what he says...and he thinks whatever he says will go..and when things dont go his way or wen someone tells him abiut the problem he has he gets extremely angry

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2 hours ago, Harley_Queen said:

he gets mad whenever i tell him how i felt..and plus everytime i do..he just never listens he only about what he says...and he thinks whatever he says will go..and when things dont go his way or wen someone tells him abiut the problem he has he gets extremely angry

I see what you are getting at. He's in complete denial that it's over. Can't you fix him up with someone who would suit him better? oprah11

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"its best if we stop communicating"

Is really all you can do in this kind of situation, so good for you. Your ex is abusive, as a friend or otherwise, and likely will stay that way. Don't give into his manipulations or feel guilty for protecting yourself katyanna1

 

 

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he's a mess and needs help dead2 

but certainly not from you dead2 

don't communicate and hope he'll forget you in a few decades dead2 

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On 2/24/2016 at 0:12 PM, ajp said:

 

I see what you are getting at. He's in complete denial that it's over. Can't you fix him up with someone who would suit him better? oprah11

i tried..but he refused...

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