EXO Chen apologizes for engagement and "poor wording"

[Chris Morlock 48,380]

“Hello. This is Chen.

After worrying a lot about how I should express my feelings, it’s taken me until now to write to EXO-L.

I’m worried that I might hurt you through poor wording, but I want to first off apologize to everyone who has waited for all that time. I also want to express my apologies to EXO-L who must have been very surprised and taken aback by my sudden news.

When I first wrote that letter, it was my first time too experiencing such a thing, so I worried a lot about what I should say to EXO-L who’ve been together with me. Still, I wrote a letter because I thought that I needed to personally tell all of you first… however, my unintentionally lacking and poor wording caused disappointment and hurt, and seeing you experience that made my heart ache as well.

I don’t know if my feelings will be conveyed well, but I’m sincerely grateful for the love that you’ve given me and I’m more aware than anyone else that I am who I am now because of that love.

I want to apologize again for expressing my apologies to you so late. Also, I will show you how I’m continuing to try hard. Thank you.” cr

original post: naver

1. [+921, -103] Ajusshi, please leave the group ㅜㅜ

2. [+455, -38] It was just 10 lines of excusesㅋㅋㅋ And yet not one real apology, just him saying that he “wanted to”

3. [+439, -43] I won’t curse. Thank you for all that time. But please think of the members and leave. Go promote as a solo.

4. [+367, -55] What kind of father is an idol?

5. [+266, -54] Just leave the group, please ㅜㅜㅜㅠ

6. [+125, -7] It’s too late. When your fans were having a hard time, you went to a naengmyeon restaurant with your wife, played all the games, your mouth shut and why are you apologizing to your fans right now?;; and this time, it’s not even your own handwriting.

7. [+82, -6] It’s natural to take responsibility for a pregnant girlfriend, but all you have to take responsibility for is EXO’s image that’s been compromised and the members left behind^^

8. [+73, -10] Don’t come out. If you apologize to your fans, just leave. What kind of baby daddy thinks they can be an idol still?

 

 

https://www.knetizen.com/exos-chen-apologizes-to-fans-over-engagement-and-pregnancy-announcement/

 

This is ridiculous. These people are not his fans wtf. 

[Sour Candy 2,276]

ugh i hate ratizens so much  

[Venom 7,556]

People really take the idol thing too fucking seriously. You're listening to cute girl/boy bands singing songs writers compose for them; it's not that deep.  The idea that he should apologize for having a personal life, and that he shouldn't be allowed to pursue his career if he's a parent, or he shouldn't be allowed to pursue a relationship if he's a musician, is not only toxic but selfish!